in response to a question posed, i will give a short version of things on the low-down with adrian and i... i'll just post it here for those who are left wondering. (and i'm not even getting too much into detail here):
If I were to venture a guess, it may be a misunderstanding about possessions not being split up appropriately. If I remember right though, I think her brother may have done most of the packing while Adrian was out in an effort to speed him out of the apartment. It would make sense that her brother wouldn't always know how to split thing up correctly. Also, I think a good portion of the stuff was put in storage, so it seems very possible some of her stuff may be in Adrian's storage without him even knowing it. If that's the case the solution seems pretty simple. Anyway, it would be unfortunate if this were all just a misunderstanding about things.
not quite. adrian tried doing stupid petty things while he was packing like taking certain spices off of my spice rack, claiming they were his... throwing all my clothes that were hung up in the closet on the floor because they "were on his green hangers".. taking dumb things i bought when i moved in, like the fucking toilet brush, of all things. he even took the toilet paper off the toilet paper holder, claiming it was "his fucking toilet paper." he also tried to take furniture that came with the apartment when i signed the lease. mind you, adrian lived there completely rent-free the whole time we were together-- almost a year. he borrowed hundreds of dollars on top of that from me which i never saw back.
when he got hired at us cellular, he signed me up on his share plan so i would get free cell phone coverage, as part of a way to pay me back. as soon as he was moved out, he cut off my phone, and i had to go through hours of hassle to get my phone back on- having to completely sign a new two-year contract and pay all the innitial sign-on fees again. it probably ended up costing me more in the long run for the short time i was on this plan than actually giving me a break on some of the cash.
when i told him i wanted him to move out (right after new years) he claimed he couldn't give me any money if he was to get another place, so i allowed him to stay longer, assuming i might get some of the thousands of dollars he owed me back. but no. it never happened. instead, he went out and bought a car, among many other lavish things that he could have lived without in order to get me back some of my cash. did i mention that my mom also paid $1000 of his past-due rent from the apartment he was living in before he moved in with me? yeah. she, of course, never saw that back either.
is this putting things into perspective at all? i could go on and on....